Munchausen Syndrome By Proxy AKA MSBP

This post comes to you, to view, in hopes that everyone will come to their own conclusions regarding what you are about to read. I have mixed feelings on this one, of course, my being a mother of three and struggling through some tough times in raising the children by myself, but also with much scrutiny from those around me, including some that were so vicious and vindictive that they would have been none the happier in seeing my children ripped from my arms, however, I sit and write this to you now in knowing, my children are safely in my surroundings, but other mothers in our USA are tonight without their children.

I would like for all reading this today, to think for moment, what it must be like for a mother, who does nothing more than to want to protect her child/children. Then yet is accused of over protecting them, from an abusive parent(male or female), either abusive physically, sexually, or verbally to the child, or the mother/father. Yet, the one protecting is then accused in this society? Do the courts let criminals out of prison, or pedophiles running free on our streets, then to see THEIR children and maybe to abuse again? So why is it then that a parent(usually the mother) abused by another, and only protecting the child, this person/s is held to a strict code of parental alienation, but only for doing what was best, saving oneself and the child.

For this, a lifetime of internal prison, unable to hold the one you love, the one that came out of your womanly body, how excrutiating is this?

Please teach yourself about this subject, and help those whom cannot help themselves in these situations, and help for the sake of helping, not for the sake of making a BUCK. These people truly need your help.

http://www.msbp.com
http://www.guardian.co.uk/child/story/0,7369,1130834,00.html
http://www.parentsabusedbyss.org/
http://www.indianacrc.org/hotissues.html
http://www.matchmothers.org/pages/welletter.html
http://www.usajudges.com/
http://www.batteredmotherscustodyconference.org/genia.html
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/14870310/site/newsweek/

This article is not intended to offend anyone, it is only to inform, and if anyone takes offense then I can only assume that your opinion is of difference of which you are entitled, however, not entitled to take offense against the writer of this article. We live in a free USA, where freedom of speech prevails, let the FACTS be shown, and the dissenting opinions be voiced, however, there seems to be a problem amongst us in America, and the children are the one's that might be the losers in an adult society.

Copyright Paula 2006

NEVER GIVE UP

Never Give Up!

Martin Luther King, Jr. declared :

Faith in the dawn arises from the fact that God is good and just. When one believes this, he knows that the contradictions of life are neither final nor ultimate. He can walk through the dark night with the radiant conviction that all things work together for good for those that love God [and are called according to his purpose]. Even the most starless midnight may herald the dawn of some great fulfillment.

The dawn will come Disappointment, sorrow, and despair are born at midnight, but morning follows. "Weeping may endure for a night," says the Psalmist, "but joy cometh in the morning." This faith adjourns the assemblies of hopelessness and brings light into the dark chambers of pessimism. [quoted in Strength to Love]

This is a quote that I found on the internet while researching, and it struck my mind as being so true, I felt I would pass this along to all to think.

VOTEVETS.ORG

About VoteVets.org PAC



Throughout the history of the United States, America’s most courageous and competent leaders have been Veterans. George Washington, Andrew Jackson, Abraham Lincoln, Theodore Roosevelt, Dwight D. Eisenhower and John F. Kennedy are only a few. Just as Veterans of WWII, Korea and Vietnam currently fill the ranks of government, so too will the Veterans of the current conflicts in Iraq and Afghanistan.


Iraq and Afghanistan Veterans have come back to the United States ready to take their sense of duty to the political arena, and continue their public service. They’ve come back to America wanting to change our country and they are the best messengers to be successful in this political environment. VoteVets.org PAC is devoted to making sure that these Veterans are equipped with the tools they need to be successful as candidates for public office.

Founded and supported by Veterans, VoteVets.org PAC views defense policy as an American priority. The goal of the VoteVets.org PAC is to put Iraq and Afghanistan War Veterans in Congress who are critical of the execution of the war in Iraq and representative of the principles of VoteVets.org PAC in the US Congress by:

Providing their campaigns with early candidate training, financing, messaging, web and field training from the top professionals in the field
Fostering policy and message unity regarding U.S. foreign and military policy
Making direct contributions and independent expenditures to benefit their campaigns
Ensuring current members of Congress are held accountable for their votes on Iraq and Veterans’ issues by taking them to task for votes and positions that harm America, and its troops and Veterans.

Providing the credibility and support of the Iraq and Afghanistan Veterans community. An attack on an individual is an attack on us all. We are united in supporting our fellow veterans.

Taken from the site of www.votevets.org

Setting Things Aside

DID YOU EVER START A PROJECT TO ONLY
SET IT ASIDE?

HAVE YOU WRITTEN A LETTER AND NOT
COMPLETED, TO ONLY SET IT ASIDE?

HAVE YOU EVER TOLD A CHILD, NOT NOW,
I WILL SEE IT IN A MINUTE, AND THE
CHILD FEELS AS IF YOU JUST SET IT
ASIDE?

DID YOU START A DINNER, WALKED AWAY,
FEW MOMENTS LATER, SMELL BURNING,
OOPS, BECAUSE YOU MENTALLY SET
IT ASIDE..

DID YOU START YOUR TAXES, AND WALK
AWAY FOR BOREDOM SETS IN, AND SET IT
ASIDE?


DID YOU START A POEM ONE YEAR,
THEN TWO YEARS LATER NOTICED HOW
YOU SET IT ASIDE?

DID YOU EVER SAY, I WILL GO TO THE
DOCTOR SOON, BUT THEN TIME PASSED, YOU
SET THE THOUGHT ASIDE, AND THEN..BECAME
ILL..

DID YOU EVER SAY, I MUST CALL MY FRIEND
SOON, BUT THEN SET ASIDE THE THOUGHT,
ONLY TO FIND OUT ON THE DAY YOU CALL
OR SEND EMAIL, YOUR FRIEND PASSED AWAY?

DID YOU EVER THINK, I MUST TELL THAT
SOMEONE SPECIAL IN MY LIFE..I LOVE YOU..
BUT THEN FIND OUT SOMEONE ELSE DID?

DID YOU???...OH, I MUST GO, SOMETHING
JUST HAPPENED, I AM ABOUT TO SET THIS
ASIDE.......

Copyright 2003 Paula

Vote to Affect Change

I bet everyone can figure out this topic. VOTE!!!! Yes it is true, even though some may not think so, but to vote is to affect change. How many out there feel that our government could use some assistance in decision making these days? Anyone, raise your hand!!!

I for one, would answer yes to this. I am sure all of us are thinking which area could use some change. This could be a filled discussion, because I am sure there are many things affecting the home fronts of many.

Normally, I am an optimistic, however, the past 2 years have been interesting, with ever increasing prices, from gasoline, food, home insurances, interest rates, health issues, etc. I am actually becoming quite concerned. Being concerned, is also leading way to somewhat of a pessimistic attitude, which, we all know, is not usually a good thing, this could rub off on others.

So, how do we all stay optimistic then in this changing society. Well, we VOTE for those whose intentions are well meant, but their record in producing and affecting change for the good, is a positive one.

Think before you Vote, be prepared and know the topics that each candidate brings forward, call them, ask questions, and most of all, do not let them blow smoke, if elected, they must be held accountable.

YOU VOTED FOR THEM, THEN YOU HOLD THEM ACCOUNTABLE, THIS IS THE ONLY WAY WE CAN ALL AFFECT CHANGE.

HAPPY VOTING ON ELECTION DAY!!!!

Websites to Visit

Hello,

I have been working on a few projects on the internet, some may be of interest to you, please take time to visit them, and pass along to friends. My outlook and projection for these sites are to be able to have much success and pass along this success to others. One of my newest thoughts, in helping soldiers overseas via a non-profit organization, in addition the websites below, may actually help in sending my children to college.

Please visit and pass along to others:

www.altechdiagnostics.com, medical website
www.worldhomes4sale.com, homes for sale, cheap listing for sellers, free to buyers
ptwitty.ordermygift.com, gift giving made easy
ptwitty.qhealthbeauty.com, health and beauty items
www.8thandoceanmall.com, internet mall
www.balharbordrive.com, internet mall

The internet malls above, if interested, you can also open your own mall, just inquire within the site. Have many employees or friends to buy gifts for holidays, then you will enjoy the order my gift site, this is gift giving made easy.

The worldhomes site, listing of your home, or placing your company advertising is very inexpensive, once registered, you can log on and add placement of company logo, or your home advertisement. Real Estate agents and Firms, we have not offended you, we would like for you to use this site, contact us, and we can possibly work out an inexpensive advertising package for all of your clients.

Please visit us at any one of the sites, when you place orders, you are actually helping our United States Economy.

Thank your for your thoughts and comments.

Paula Twitty
Ceo

Government Dollars Hard At Work?

Have you ever walked into a Government center, and encountered employed personnel squandering our tax payer dollars? It has occurred to me recently, by visiting a local Veterans Health Center(I am a veteran)that our tax dollars that we so non-generously give up, are being wasted. After visiting the center numerous times in the past years, I have undoubtedly encountered some scenes that would certainly disgust the average American.

While sitting, awaiting for an appointment, I encountered a VERY OLD veteran, one whom deserved the respect of a President. This man made me proud, by his stories from the Vietnam war, and Korean war. He was one of the proud Purple Heart Holders, this in itself described to me, that this man had seen some troubling times. However, after his explanation of his encounters, many dramatic and sad, he patiently awaited for his appointment. After 2 hours past, seeing him in his wheelchair, still patient, I could not help myself, but to ask, why are you waiting so long, his reply: I always wait this long! Well, I said, since you have captured my attention today with your wonderful adventures in life, or some not so, let me help you.

I walk up to the counter, ask politely, please, this man has been waiting for over 2 hours, must he sit in his wheelchair in the corner for this long. The reply, "listen lady, everyone has to wait their turn". I replied, "of course I realize this, however, when was his appointment?", name is checked and verified, "oh, his appointment was for 9am", he will still have to wait, by this time, it is already 11:45. I said, note the time, when do you go to lunch, "15 minutes" he replies. I said, hm, well, looks as if you need to see him in 15 minutes then, is this possible, and if not, are you taking him to lunch, for he has not eaten since this morning I am told, and a relative dropped him off. The reply "of course I am not taking him to lunch, he will just have to wait".

The man at the appointment desk asked, "by the way who are you?" I said, well, I am also a veteran awaiting my appointment, which was at 8am, however, I am more concerned with him, I am used to wasting my entire day down here awaiting my appointments,(some of which I waited all day and was not seen) but you see, he, however, should not have to wait so long in his wheelchair, at least I can get up and walk around.

The attendant at the desk then, proceeded without interruption into a friendly conversation, with the attendant next to him, and had a wonderful rest of the morning, and afternoon, horse playing, eating at his desk, telling veteran's to wait until after lunch hour was over, and then they should be seen.

Time and time again, payroll in these centers are being squandered with our tax payer dollars, it is one thing to be paying for something useful, something helping the community, but for employees of governmental centers to be squandering away the time at not only the expense of the tax payer, but additionally at the expense of time wasted by the patiently awaiting VETERANS of this country.

I am disgusted by this repeated site, so, in trying to complain, I try to find the IN-CHARGE personnel, the comments are brushed under the rug, for it is only another COMPLAINING VETERAN, they should be happy that they are receiving their FREE health benefit(I heard under someone's breath as I complained one day). In addition, you would think, that when you make a complaint in Washington, they would listen, however, I was told, that an investigation only occurs if they have enough complaints about a particular center.

Is not ONE COMPLAINT from a VETERAN worth their time and attention? I do not feel bad for myself, I feel bad for all of the VETERAN'S with an arm/leg or other limb missing, or a mind that is not working properly, and they cannot make complaint's, they are in too much pain, or do not understand how to make the complaint.

Thanks to Joann for input on this article regarding the title.